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I hope you had a good Memorial Day weekend and met some new women.

This week I want to talk about dumping your girlfriend. Unfortunately a lot of relationships just don’t work out. And if you find yourself in a relationship that is going nowhere, it is best to end it as quickly as possible. If you are convinced that you have lost all your feelings for her, whatever you do, don’t lead her own and stay in the relationship just to have someone to be with or for sex.

So, how do you go about telling her that you don’t want to see her anymore? I know it’s a difficult thing to do, but you must do it in a kind way with diplomacy. Don’t just tell her that you are not attracted to her anymore or things related to her appearance such as her putting on extra weight, which is turning you off. This will only offend her and make her hate you. Don’t say anything unkind or negative about her. Let her down easy.

Just simply tell her that it’s nothing personal against her, but the relationship is just not working out and it’s best that both of you end it now and get on with your lives. If she keeps asking you why you want to break up, just suggest that she’s a lovely woman, but you feel that you are not compatible and don’t have a future for a long-term commitment.

As the old saying goes, “Breaking up is hard to do.” It’s so true, but look at it this way: It’s better to have lost at love than to have never loved at all.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Unfortunately, it’s a fact of life that at some point relationships with single women can go bad. And when they go bad they leave clues. You need to be aware of the signs she will give when she is has lost interest in you to the point that she may want to break up with you.

It’s better to be able to recognize the signs in advance rather to be in total shock when she dumps you suddenly without notice.

I’ve come up with a “Top Eleven” list of symptoms that your relationship is in trouble:

1. She openly talks about previous relationships and how great one of her ex-boyfriends was.
2. You are spending less time together and she turns down dates more often.
3. She is not as affectionate towards you and has lost interest in sex with you.
4. She is verbally abusive towards you and treats you like a dog.
5. She is constantly picking fights with you over silly, petty matters.
6. She tells you that she needs to spend time alone without you. In other words, she needs her space.
7. She’s very quiet and doesn’t talk to you like she did in the past.
8. She doesn’t share her feelings about things anymore.
9. You use to talk on the phone for what seemed like hours. Now, she doesn’t talk for very long and always seems in a hurry to get off the phone.
10. She tells you that she would like to start dating other guys and doesn’t want to be tied down.
11. She rarely picks up the phone when you call anymore. She is deliberately screening her calls, so she doesn’t have to talk to you.

In closing, if you recognize some of these symptoms, take steps to rescue your relationship and make it better. Of course, sometimes it’s a losing cause and you just have to cut your losses and move on. P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com